Sunday, July 19, 2009
How a 40 year old middle aged geek attracts hot 25 year old
How a 40 year old middle aged "geek" attracted a HOT 25 year old!
Attracting the person of your dreams is really very simple! First off, STOP wasting your money on those Internet Courses that cost on upwards to $500 or more! I'm about to save you a lot of time, money, frustration, and trial and error.
Why NOT learn from someone who's attracted and dated some of the most
beautiful women in the world! (And yes, this will work for attracting guys too!)
So what is the secret of attracting the person of YOUR dreams?
First off, it all starts with YOU! It starts by the way you think, the way you act,
and the way you see yourself! Start by SEEING yourself as someone desirable!
A. Let's start with the way you think?
Do you see yourself as someone that's attractive?
Someone that has something to offer someone else? or
Do you constantly beat yourself up with negative thoughts or emotions? ie...I'm not attractive? I don't have a good job? I'm not a charmer? The RICH guys always get the good ones...etc...
STOP IT NOW! IT'S DOING MORE HARM THAN YOU'LL EVER KNOW! - You are sending a message out to the universe that's negative...and that's exactly what you're getting! NOTHING.
If you don't believe me...I suggest you read the blockbuster seller: The Secret by Rhonda B. Let's continue....
#1. See yourself as someone who's attractive, who has something to offer someone else, who is loving caring fun creative, etc...Put everything you've EVER learned about attracting the person of YOUR dreams aside for now! It didn't work for you, if it did, you wouldn't be reading this now.
#2. Do you REALLY know the kind or type of person you want to attract? or are you willing to settle for just anyone?
Most just simply say: I want to date someone that's hot, has a good job, and is fun!
Okay, that narrow's it down...hmmm..that's about 50% of the population out there? Right?
Right now...I want you to HOLD a CRYSTAL clear image in your head of the type of person you want to attract. Be specific with yourself...age? eye color? height? personality? hobbies? interests?, etc....Next, I want you to grab a 3x5 index card, or a piece of paper..and I want you to write down the type of person you want to attract, and I want you to write it as if it's all ready happened.
Example: "My partner is a 25 year old blonde/blue eye'd female, 5'2", 120lbs, likes to travel, sky-dive, watch movies, and wants a family one day!"
I know, I know..this might sound crazy...but it's exactly what I did...and within 3 month's I had attracted the person of my dreams! So why NOT try something that has worked!?
Dressing To Attract and Dressing For Success
Now that we've got the "inner" you on the right course. It's now time to work on the outter you! What do I mean by this? I mean, dressing in the proper manner will greatly increase YOUR odd's of attracting that "special someone".
Let's face it, one can have the greatest personality, be great looking, have ton's to offer someone, etc. and still not attract the person of their dreams, why? B/C they can't even get the opposite sex to look at them! Why?
Most dress like they've just rolled out bed! Do you think this is attractive to someone else?
Of course not....the opposite sex or women don't want a slacker...they want a man who takes
of himself. Here's 5 simple steps to DRESS to ATTRACT.
You don't have to dress like a millionaire or super-model. Regardless of what you wear: a). make sure it's ironed. b). clean c). no more than 2-3 years old d) and stay away from the "fad" or "political" wear until you get to know someone. I mean the Ed. Hardy, Phat Farm, etc...that's what LITTLE BOYS wear, not men! Never, ever wear anything that would be offensive to anyone.
For men: a collared button-down shirt is your best choice. Non-pattern, solid polo or Tommy Hilfiger type dress shirt. And, never, never wear different color shoes than the color of your belt!!!
Get rid of the facial hair. And make sure your head of hair is neat and trimmed.
Forget excessive jewlery. Unless you want to attract someone for your $$$, then more power to you! A simple watch is fine.
Cologne. I can not express the importance of this..that's why it's last. Women LOVE men who smell great! It sends a message of: Power, Confidence, etc... Never too much. Apply the last brand about 30min. to 45min. before you go to a social function.
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